Have you found your Soulmate??

Since I started this blog and introduced it to friends I received mixed feelings and responses. They probably noticed I was talking more about the same guy and thought I was silly or plain stupid. The only thing I could say is I have high respect for this man and I knew about him since I was single. So, having this blog is not only a way of supporting him as an 'imaginary friend' since he doesn't really know me but a tribute to an idol from an avid fan.

Just like what my husband would repeatedly say about this sort of thing is ( the second man in my life) after a cute comfortable grin on his face. He knows he is my one and only.

Someone asked me at work today if I found my soulmate. I said YES!!! of course I have, I am married and inlove. Inside I was wondering what does a soulmate really mean? It's not something you would think of in everyday life perhaps more if you are single. But someone said it doesn't have to be your husband or wife. Now that's a bit sad if not.

So I surfed the net for possible answers. I suppose everyone has their own opinion but this one seem to be convincing or is it?

What is a Soul Mate?

1. A soul mate complements each other. You don't have to agree on politics, but you better have compatible ideas on the nature of G-d (even if you practice different religions).

You don't have to like the same comedians, but you have to understand each other's humor.

You may give to different charities, but you have to share a generosity of spirit.

2. Soul mates share a connection. You have to feel a connection -- a connection so strong that you say, "This may be the most remarkable person I have ever met in my life." Where you look forward just as much to conversations and activities out of bed as the other way around (although you want both).

And where it's a connection that defies time -- that you know you may raise a family together and will definitely grow old together, and the prospect excites you rather than scares you.--doxieman122

3. A soul mate is not necessarily a love interest. A soulmate is someone that will mirror you, show you everything that is holding you back...a person who will bring you to your own attention so you can change your life.

4. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you will ever meet. They will come into your life to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then they leave. --anap

5. Soulmates complete each other.

6. Soulmate feels like home.The connection is physical, emotional, spiritual, and any other "al" that is possible. It just feels like "home". And I wouldn't want to be anywhere else.--TMaude

7. Soulmates are cosmically connected.

8. Soulmates learn from each other.

My soul mate is someone who walks beside me not in front, because I may not follow. He's someone who listens when I speak and speaks while I listen. He supports me physically, emotionally, spiritually, and financially if I let him. He doesn't have to agree with me but be on my side (watch my back while I watch his). Someone who doesn't execute authority over me, because only my Creator has that right, but someone who accepts me as the person I am. I was created in the Creator's image, not anyone else's. My soul mate knows this and accepts it, he walks a mile in my moccasins, then we discuss what has been learned.--feathers2306

If these would be the basis then I have certainly found mine and

I thank God for that, for giving me such a wonderful husband!

Source: Beliefnet.com